So in my family there as been a practice of offerring puberty hit/coming of age boys to loose their virginity and supposdly become a man.

Even i went through the same practice, where my grandpa had called me to the village and then offered me to have sex with his concubine.

I know it a very regrassive practice.

But it had helped me in many ways like I never in my life kept sex on a pedestal like it is some kind of a reward. Never wasted my time chasing and thinking about women. Was comfortable around woman, talking to them and even facing rejections. I kind of credit my sucess to it as i could focus on work and not on women espesially in my early career building days.

It somewhat had negetive effects on me too. Like i was desenstized to sex. I always had women complaining how less romantic I am etc.

Now, my son is also coming of age. And my dad asked me if i have started to make some arrangements for him, so he could take his grandson to.

But, now i am in a conundrum.

Like the times now have changed.

Back then whatever our grandfather or father told us we did it, taking thie word a rule cast in stone.

This generations boys are not like this. Will he take this in a good way or bad way. Will he be offended or disgusted.

If you are a ypung man please let me now how would you feel about it ?

Now, should i do it or let him figure out this part of his life on his own.

We are fairly well to do now, so he doesnt have to technincally work hard and focus to have a good life.

He can chase girls and utilze his time to focus on this part of his life than to build a career.

But, i feel too that the advantages i had maybe he wont develope.

So what should i do ?

Should i continue this family tradition or let it die with me ?