A needle in a haystack would be a lot easier to find!

I've been trying to find a chat partner (preferrable a woman over 40) who just wants to have some adult conversations ... sometimes completely SFW, and sometimes, if the vibe is right, some virtual fun.

Whenever I chat with people here, they are either not making any kind of effort (one word answers, etc.), or they simply stop responding all together. When did it become acceptable to just disappear without even saying, "hey, gotta go, catch you later" or something along those lines? And the worst ones are those that just want you to subscribe to their OF page or something.

I had one long term chat partner (F57), but she eventually ended our chat because she wanted a clean slate and to start dating guys IRL. I really miss chatting with her, but it's been almost impossible to find someone new to fill that void.

I'm not expecting any miracles here ... I'm just venting.