Here’s the situation... I’m seeing someone amazing. It’s totally casual but as time has passed we’ve unintentionally focused on each other. I think we are both pretty happy and satisfied, so no need to look around. It’s already an unconventional relationship but the particulars aren’t important.

A week or so ago I met one of her friends. We all had a great time... nothing inappropriate. Later on in the week, the girl I’m seeing tells me that the friend would be up for a threesome. She’s very attractive and oozes sex from every pore. I enthusiastically agreed without thinking.

Here’s the thing. Both women (a) have had a couple threesomes together, and (b) immediately after it has put a strain on their relationship. In each case, it was because one had been seeing someone and invited the other in.

I’m told they’ve worked it out and I’ve been doing the whole “are you sure?” thing. While it’s casual, I do care for her and would hate to hurt her or her friendship that goes back a long time. The only feedback I’ve been given is to make sure I cum with her! Umm... ok... I’ll do my best!

Anyone been in a similar predicament? Any advice?

Ps. This is going to happen. Both are adamant at this point and I want it too. I just want to manage any potential blowback. Pun intended.

Edit: it’s official! This is going down Friday night!!!! Everyone seems to be comfortably onboard!!!