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Hi ARAD!
So I just started my freshman year of college, and I am loving it. Unfortunately, I've run into the problem of me and my roommate sharing pretty much the exact same schedule. Unfortunately, this means that I don't exactly have any "me time" to take care of myself.
I haven't been able to get off in two weeks, and it's driving me nuts. So I'm open to suggestions on how to deal with my issue.
As for my living situation, we have communal bathrooms at the end of the hallway. I unfortunately can not orgasm standing up, so I can't go in the shower. She's also an extremely light sleeper so even my vibe would wake her up.
I suppose that I am open to talking with her, but I'd rather not because that has the potential to get weird VERY fast and she's been my best friend since middle school, but if you have a suggestion to make it not weird I'd love to hear it.
I thought of that, but I'm kind of loud and I'm scared of getting caught.
Same class and meal schedule. We're even in the same clubs.
We talked, and are still talking and I think it is going well.
Doesn't really keep the noise down from leg spasms.
We just agreed we each needed more personal time in the room, so we just started studying in the library more. It's kind of a moot point now, she basically lives with her BF and just uses the dorm to store her clothes and shoes.
The lecture buildings are locked over the weekend, the only open ones are the libraries it seems like.
I've never tried tbh. I really enjoy just one big one.
Well we agreed that we both have sexual needs, and I offered to let her have the room to herself for a half hour, which she accepted, and then we just talked about us getting boyfriends.
Thanks, I think that this is what I'm going to do when we get home tonight.
Our shower floors are kind of gross.
I actually tried the first week I was here. Unfortunately I can't really keep the volume that low so I'd probably attract attention. Also, it takes me a while so I don't know if I could go that long without at least one person walking in.
I've tried to, but I'm on a kind of tight schedule in the middle of the day and during the evenings so it's hard.
Freshmen have to live in the dorms, but i will be talking to her.
It's REALLY hard for me to be quiet. I get leg spasms that can be noisy.
Thank you! That put a lot into perspective for me. I think I may try bringing it up now through an email to her....
Make it clear what's about to happen? How does that not get weird??
Thanks! I did that and it seems like I may have a few options. Unfortunately, the only ones open at night look like the ones in the engineering sections of campus, so that may be tricky for me.
I haven't found any yet but I'll keep looking. That would be like a gold mine for me!
That's what I've been trying to do, unfortunately I can never get enough time in the bathroom completely alone before someone walks in and I get scared and it completely takes me out of it.
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I still need to be able to take care of my own needs. And I'm still a virgin, I'm not really ready to jump into bed with some rando without some level of relationship first.