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my (M) partner (F) wants me to try anal with her. She’s a little more confident about anal specifically than me. What should I, the person with a dick, expect or do to make it most enjoyable?
Edit: thanks y’all for the advice!
As my husband has told me, it’s more like inserting your cock into the hole of a bagel shaped object vs pussy is like a hot dog bun. You feel the tightness around insertion but once you’re in you don’t feel much and it feels a lot colder. Vs pussy he says his cock is full encased like a warm wet hug.
Pussy creates its own lubricant so you don’t need to always use lube. You ALWAYS need to use lube with anal or you could cause micro tears to your anus and even recum. There is no self made lube in the anus or recum. So more lube the better!!!
Most importantly, there will be some sort of fecal particles even if you can’t see them so NEVER go ass to pussy without a rinse off. You don’t want to give her a UTI. Could be the chance to shower off together and get ready for round two!
Hope this helps!
Go slow! And let her control how fast you go. I would definitely get her to wear a butt plug for a bit before hand to help relax her!
Relationships are all about give and take. Just have to communicate what you’re comfortable with and when it becomes too much!
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Yes as often as you start to feel too much pain/friction!
Yes, I’ve only had anal with men that wear large size condoms… the girth can be a bit much and I need breaks.
Good luck if you try it! No rush though! When you’re ready. It took us a while to try and tbh, wasn’t my hubby’s fave, he prefers my pussy. So to each their own! Everyone has their preferences but it’s fun to try!