That's something I have been thinking about sorta in recent times. Just to put myself in hypothetical scenarios so I can see things from other perspectives. Not because I'm looking to date anyone. But personally, as someone who is almost positive she doesn't want children of her own. I'm not sure if I would want to date someone with kids of their own, I guess for selfish ish reasons, and I just feel like It would make it difficult for me to be completely involved in their life when he already has an established family regardless if he's involved or not. Idk how to explain that, i am horrible at explaining my brain so excuse me if this comes off rude or misleading .

However, BEING AS I don't want my own kids, but I am a proud auntie of 7 badass human beings, I know I'd be an incredible step mom to some rad little kid if I did ever decide to date someone with kids lol