Hello everyone! Thanks for reading; here it is.

I just got divorced a few months ago after a five year marriage. Amicable ending, relationship did not work but sex was always great. It could be nice and tender or hot with anal and spanking and choking and that fun stuff. (Which was all “new” to me)

I now have a gf and it is great but I feel clumsy, I’m not sure how to play with her boobs or what she’d like. We’ve had a couple spanks and some choking when sex got hard and the moment felt right. Do girls like this? I’m not for nor against it, I just want to know if this is a “thing”; I just want to please her and have fun.

I had sex with some 20/25 girlfriends before I met my ex and sex has always been fun. But I never ran into this before. I’d like to know what my fellow redditors think