Full idea. Would you rather: Have a fully functional relationship with all the bells and whistles but know it's only temporary and you are NOT coupled or have the title, everythings official, coupled, married, bf/gf, whatever, but nothing works, the sex is bad if any, and everything is toxic?

updated: to anyone asking why choose #2 To some people the title is important. Legally speaking sometimes it matters. Some people don't believe in unofficial relationships because of religious blah blah reasons. Some people think relationships with titles are better/more stable because of the commitment. Some people think without the title it's not a real relationship. Those are the reasons I have come up with so far.