I can’t even remember how I stumbled in here but I joined because I wanted to be flirty, talk dirty and just meet other fun people. My husband knows I’m a huuuge flirt but I set a hard boundary in real life, so Reddit was/is my outlet.

Buuut two ish weeks ago I deleted all my content, chats and I left because things blew the fuck up in my face when I got into something complicated. I grew to love (like the dumb bitch I am) a guy I got really close to. Let me preface by telling you this has never been an issue for me ever of all ever. Ever. I know how to separate feelings from flirting, I’ve never even had a CRUSH on someone here before him, but he had/has me in a death grip chokehold where I’m a love sick idiot and I’m in it for the unforeseeable future.

..but fuck dude, I miss the harmless flirting and feeling wanted. I miss feeling wanted and praised. Is that bad?

So do I return? Do I pretend like I don’t miss y’all and stay away?

But I truly am also curious as to how you found ARAD, what you love about it and why you stay.

PS: So many of you had such beautiful things to say to me on my post about being heartbroken and it reminded me why I love ARAD so much outside of all the naughty stuff.