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Am I being a terrible person by being scared of anal, even though it's the only form of penetration I can do?
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Cause like I'm AMAB (Assigned Male At Birth), Non-Binary though and I've loved the thoughts of being fucked and penetrated but ever since I had a little practice with a dildo I've just been terrified of it ever since. Along with some bad stories from here and people I know who ended up having an accident because of anal and it just makes my fear even worse...

Now every AMAB person I get with always asks to fuck me but I just move around the question instead with a blowjob so I don't have to worry about being penetrated in my ass. But of course they always ask again and I just have to come up with an excuse to not do anal now.

Is there anything I can do to become less scared and more used to the idea and feeling of anal?

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Nobody is terrible for being scared of something. But if you follow all the documented prep methods and have a good partner to explore with, then it just takes some practice and getting familiar with. Don’t let horror stories decide for you. For each of those, there’s 10 successes.

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