I have told partners at the time when I have sent or made pics or videos that I am fine with them keeping them for however long they want even if we weren't together. Nothing I send/make has identifying features in it, even so I just ask they don't ever share them. They are personal-use only.

I kinda like the idea of the possibility of someone objectifying & desiring me, but not just in a visual way. I like that they know what I felt, tasted & sounded like etc... maybe even have a certain memory that will stay with them forever.

It's almost like "immortality"... not being forgotten... Or being acknowledged as the best at something. The ultimate praise kink 😂

I personally am not visual, I am drawn in by the non-physical qualities of a person and then I develop an attraction to their physical features. So I don't keep anything after a break up, because if my affections are on a different person then I am not attracted to the ex anymore as it's the non-physical things that do it for me.

What about you?