Well... There's a long story, so I'm going to keep it short. I want to see my wife with other men. I've felt this way since I met my first wife at 17, I'm 40 now. So it's deeply embedded into my personality. But I'm on my second wife, naturally I want the same thing. She tried (kinda but not really). She isn't interested and has that as her boundary now. Which I won't overstep.

Any men out there who have sharing their wife in their personality but their wife was against it. Preferably someone who chose to stay. How are you doing. Did you make the right decision. I feel my needs aren't being met. If I stay, what's my life going to look like in the future?

Edit: Hmmm should have added to my post. She told me she was interested in this. And even played in that space. Until we got married. Then it changed. So yeah, I spoke to her about this from day one. I think you're misunderstanding the question. I have no intention of pushing her in a direction she isn't interested in. I won't step over her boundary. My question was for men who share a similar kink where their partners don't, if they choose to stay. How did it end up.