I am having a really hard time understanding why especially lately it feels like I am getting an onslaught of partnered/married men flirting and wanting to do more. Their relationship status is never revealed upfront, only if I ask or it comes up in some way. I am not judging, just trying to understand why. This is happening on Reddit so they have access to my post history and no where have I expressed interest in wanting to be with someone already taken. I don’t know if it’s just happening to me but if anyone can weigh in I appreciate the insight. I get that there are dead bedrooms and people feeling stuck and frustrated, but wouldn’t it be ethical to disclose that on first contact rather than wait until there’s already some chemistry and connection happening, even more explicit photos being exchanged and/or plans to get together? Why do that?