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She was venting to me. She cried and said that she was thinking there was something legit wrong with her.
Her fiancée is THE PERFECT MAN. DISNEY PRINCE. ROM-COM HEART-THROB.
HER EX WAS AN ABUSIVE DRUNKARD, BROKE GAMBLER, ALCOHOLIC JUNKIE, NEGLIGENT, FILTHY BUM, GRAP-EY, UGLY, INSIDE AND OUT.
STILL THE BEST SEX THAT SHE HAS EVER HAD.
Fiancée is not bad, still above average but no-where near the drool-worthy, toe-curling territory.
Fiancée is the near-perfect dream man. The sex is still above average.
We take marriage pretty seriously. So, I told her to break-off the engagement. Bare in-mind, there's no chance in hell she's going back to that prick. She's sworn-off him for good.
Not just the sex. She feels something is missing from their relationship. She can't quite put her finger on it.
I adviced her to leave fiancée not because of the sex. That's superficial. It's the gut-feeling. What's the use The Perfect Man if no chemistry, compatibility, relatibility and raw sexual attraction even-though if he was born a Greek-God, you know?
Go out there, don't be afraid, you'll find your person even if not perfect. Middle-ground will do.
Her best friend is pissed. Saying, I'm ruining our friend's life and am a bad-influence. Our friend is leaning towards leaving him after-all. She's saying that a man like that only comes once in life time. Stupid to turn down a precious-stone like that.
I told her what I've told all of ya'll. Her best-friend wouldn't listen.
So, do you think my friend should leave her fiancée or marry him?
Love to hear from ya'll. Thanks and goodday 🙂
TL; DR - - - - > TOLD friend to leave fiancée since wedding's already in the works. She feels something is missing in their relationship although completely un-sure what it is. Sex is not an issue since it's still above-average although no-where near the best she has ever had. Her best friend is saying I'm bad with advice and this may ruin our friend's life. Im saying that living in an un-happy marriage might be worse especially when children already involved. Should my friend leave fiancée or marry? Thoughts and goodday ya'll.
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