Was sexting with a dude on grindr, it was getting heated, having fun. We are chatting about our kinks and stuff, I talk about how I like ass, they send a pics, ans send some pics back too. Gets later in the sexting, I tell them I wanna cum to their ass. I tell them I like being told what picture to use, I ask them two times if they wanted me to cum to their ass pic which they never responded to.

Eventually I just say I really need to cum and am desperate for the to choose a pic, and they send me a dick pic.

I don't understand how many times I have to make it so clear what I want and get the entirely wrong thing. Every time I'm getting intimate with someone I always make an effort to understand what they enjoy, and listen to what they tell me they like, but it seems like no one ever does that for me, and I don't feel like it's that hard.

I am just frustrated.