I'm not talking about ejaculation. It's easy and you get there almost always when you play with your D.

I'm talking about that intense pleasure and connection that you experience, where you feel connected and loved, either with your partner or with yourself.

Ejaculation is more of a mechanical process, you do certain things and you get there. But orgasm, I think is more complex and involves multiple factors. For me, what's more important is a psychological connect with the partner and longer foreplays help.

I've orgasmed more when my partner initiated sex, and porn has hardly ever given me one. Also, moaning - even solo while masturbating has given me better orgasms.

What's your recipe for an intense orgasm?