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4th date. Talking about going official.
She's pretty inside and out if you could look pass all-that low-key narcissism. Mature, dominant and independent. Well-rounded, stable and secure in every way.
My friends say that I can do better. Not that pretty because too homely looking? Not that nice because she's a phony narcissist. One of my friends said that her husband used to be in the same friend group because his ex's a friend of her ex's. Told me that the maturity, well-roundedness, stability and all, all have been just some sort of an image she's trying to portray but in reality, very insecure, an emotional wreck, cling-ey, immature, submissive and not that wholesome, once, you get to know her better. They're saying that I should move on and not settle. The truth is, I find that she's the one who might be settling because I have my own issues as well.
Most people wouldn't notice. I've had so many narcissists in my life thus far, so, I tend to be very super-aware.
So far, covert and communal. Saying that she's always tried to be active, saying that most people are just lazy-slobs. Saying that most folks are drones to social-media, The Government™️ and celebrity-culture and she's not a loser like most people.
Saying that she's donated thousands and thousands to environmental charities and been doing a-lot to minimize her carbon foot-print. Saying most people are scummy and don't deserve Mother Earth.
Also, mentioned that most people are idiotic puppets of The Government™️ and already dumbed-down by them vaccines The Government™️ and Big-Pharmas used to control them.
Saying that she doesn't think that she's hot, cute or sexy but keeps on saying small things like she knows that she has a great body and she's not afraid to show it.
Also, said that she cried when she donated her hair to Them Cancer-Kids because her hair was so beautiful.
Dude said that she was legit wholesome but something changed inside of her when her parents divorced.
Can a narcissist be many types of narcissists and not just one type, ya'll?
Also, I heard that narcissism may only be stabilized and kept under-control but never cured. Is this true?
What do ya'll think and goodday to all ya'll?
TL; DR - - - - > Consider getting serious with date. Friends are saying she's no good and better to stay away. Might be a narcissist since I've experienced a-lot of shit with narcissists and very aware of the signs. Other than that, she's almost perfect. Do you think she's one and is there hope for us two? What should I do?
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