I posted a little bit ago about my wife and I having mismatched sex drives in our mid 30’s. We’ve since had sex after we had a few conversations. Something I’ve realized is our sex has no variation at all. It’s always after our nightly showers (which is fine. It’s great we are both clean). We do 20-30 minutes of foreplay. She’s goes down on me for 3-5 minutes (never to completion. She’s never blown me to completion so that is not a complaint. I married her knowing that). Then I go down on her until completion (this way I make sure she gets multiple O’s). Then we have sex 9/10 times it is missionary. Occasionally it’s doggy but never any other positions or try anything new. Now, I know I shouldn’t complain, cause with getting sex so seldomly I don’t want to rock the boat. To be clear, I am not complaining. Just making an observation. I’ve talked to her in the past and recently about doing the things she likes in bed. This is what she likes and how she wants it. She’s satisfied with how we have sex. And I am too. But it has gotten routine. Mostly I’m just grateful we do have sex. Has anyone else’s sex life gotten into a routine like this? Do you prefer a routine when it comes to sex? If it’s not broke, don’t fix it? If you do have a routine. What is your routine? (No pressure to share if ya don’t wanna).