I own my own house so discretion simply has not been at the forefront of my thoughts for the last ten years. I am not an exhibitionist but even if I were, I firmly believe that you have to treat other people with respect.

I have been invited for a long weekend at my LDR's parents lake house in NY at the end of the summer. How would you handle this?

I know from bringing BF's to my parents house in the past that the rules are different.

1. No noise means most positions are eliminated. No missionary (my fave). In fact the only position that really works was spooning.

2. BJ's and HJ's are quiet and work. I get lots of satisfaction from both but the BF eventually wants to get more.

3. Bathrooms you would think are ideal because you can create white noise but they are very echoey. They basically only work for shower oral.

4. Garden sex works. But eventually people want to know why you are going out to see the stars so often.

5. Abstinence after a month apart. We can kiss. We will be going from there to a little holiday on our own.

Four days at your BF's house. What is your move?