WE dated for quite a bit many-many moons ago.

THIS woman is known to be one of the friendliest, warm, well-rounded, wholesome, extroverted and comforting women ever.

SHE was my second most-disappointing romantical relationship ever. This woman was borderline abusive and nasty to me. The physical-abuse was not that out-of-control but the emotional abuse and neglect were brutal.

THE way she treats everyone even random strangers has always been compassionate. Everyone. Never saw her being nasty to anyone ever. Even the ones who've despised her. More on that later.

OH, I thought maybe she was one of those types who would only be nasty to Significant Others. Nope. Saw photos, vids and multiple encounters with her exes. All ultra-pleasant.

ALL of her family and friends wondered why that I was still with her at that time. They were all very nice to me. They told me that she's always talked crap about me and belittled me too all the time.

SHE also has done this to my face and in-front of everybody too as well.

FEW folks that despise her think that she's pretentious. Like this holier-than-thou ultra-liberal who preaches about stuff that's never of utmost importance. I've always thought that those folks were talking nonsense because people close to her have always known that she's actually a moderate. Not a far-left woke- progressive Karen-type.

MAYBE those folks were really onto something, huh?

ALSO, most folks even ones close to her think that she's a very strong, bold and independent woman. In reality, she's a very submissive, passive and even subservient most of the time. I truly believe that this is her true self.

WHY do you think that she felt this need to put this front when with everyone else but not with her SOs? I truly don't get it. Can someone explain? Lmao.

SORRY for not being very articulate today.

SHE eventually left me because she said that I was not being dominant enough. Lmao. Everyone was dumb-founded. Everyone said I was the best SO she has ever had and the list ain't short. They said I treated her like a literal queen. They said that all of her exes prior have been douche-bags and jerks. One ex was okey but they said that he was dumber than a bag of rocks, lacked self-awareness, careless and oblivious as well though. He was the hottest of all of us though. Lmao.

SHE said that she was somehow sexually attracted to me but found me to be physically unattractive. Never ever even liked me. Oof.

SHE said that I was too selfless in the sack and too good at muff-diving. HWAT?!? She said I was the best she has ever had sexually and she didn't like that one bit. Again, HWAT?!?

SHE has had the most orgasms with me and they have been the most intense she has ever had as well.

SHE said that she would like to be used and be told that she was scum. BDSM? Not sure though. If so, yikes. I've never been into that, like, ever.

SHE said all of her exes were rough with her and have disregarded her pleasures and feelings. She liked that. HWAT?!? She said she never really orgasmed with others and the few she experienced with them were very mild and lacklustre.

SHE did ask me to try that in-bed with her. I couldn't. Abusing, dominating and using women repulse me.

SHE'S super gorge on the outside. Supposedly very-gorge on the inside as well but never to me though. Lmao.

YA'LL. Please explain to me what's the dealio with my ex.

ALSO, HER HIMBO EX PROPOSED TO HER but she declined because she said that she's never been and never will be good enough for him. HWAT?!? Her BFF told me that she never really got over him. HWAT?!? She was never nasty to her SOs after him though but was to me though. Why do you guys think this is?

ALSO, is she considered a wonderful human-being if she's nice to 99% of folks but nasty to the remaining and as far as I'm aware, only me.

YUP-YUP. Ya'll, was our relationship salvageable before that ultimate break-up? If so, what could've I done to save it? Thanks, ya'll.

TL;DR - - - - > Ex was very wonderful to all but complete nasty to no one but only me. She said it was because I was not dominant enough with her and put her in her place. HWAT?!? Is she still considered a great human being if she was only nasty to one person ever? Also, was our relationship ever salvageable? Just wanna know your overall thoughts as well, thanks ya'll.