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Met this girl. Barely friends. More like acquaintances or just being friend-ley-ish at best. We did not click romantically and also no spark/sexual chemistry what so ever.
Funny thing is that she keeps implying that she wants to date me and be with me albeit in a not so obvious way. Like, going steady and being completely exclusive.
She's obviously not into me. Like, not even a little bit. Zero-attraction, body-language and all. Not a lot in common as well. Still always leaning on to me though. What gives?
She keeps saying that she's really fond of me. I'm not like most guys she's been with. HWAT?!? Keeps on saying that I'm non-threatening and non-confrontational. Feeling comforted, at-ease, safe and peace-ful with me. Her words seem contradictory to her actions/body-language.
I don't love her (yet?) but not hate/dislike her either. I don't like seeing someone casually. I love monogamous romantical relationships. She's the same way when it comes to this. We're both single and available at the same time as well.
My brain says WHY NOT but my friends say run and not walk for the hills. She's basically just red-flag city.
My friends keep saying that she's either a lesbian or just settling for me. INB4 anyone say that she got the baby-blues. She froze some of her eggs back when she was still in her mid-20s. So, not that. Also, I'm mid in the looks department. Chubby as well. 6' 0", 275 lbs. Not jacked. Lmao. Also, always broke. Not famous/doesn't have a high-profile job.
She's gorge. Makes more money than me.
Ya'll love to call me out sometimes. Saying that all the the traits I've listed are superficial.
It's not like that both of us have the things that matter all checked-out either. No common interest. No chemistry. No spark. Not vibing. We do not click and this ain't exactly love-at-first-sight either. No butterflies. Not romantical in any way.
I think both of us have decent personality though but that's it.
So, should I go for it or both of us are going to get hurt later? What do you guys think? Appreciate any feedback. Thanks, ya'll.
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