I’m open minded, 100% not kink shaming (embarrassing to admit but take one look at my profile, I think political play is hot and that’s way weirder than cheating) I’m just so curious. I just want to know for those of you that get off seeing a ring on someone’s finger (even if it’s fake) in porn/fantasies. What is it about that that turns you on? Or, why is it hot to sleep with someone outside of your marriage? I get a lot of DMs from married men that love the fact that they’re married and ask if that turns me on that they’re cheating on their wife (it doesn’t, really). FWIW I’m pretty sure I’m demisexual, so I don’t see any way to really be that attracted to someone to the point of wanting to cheat on my person. Can you make me understand it for those that enjoy it?

Please for the sake of our collective understanding do not judge the people who respond or come after them, attacking them for being cheaters. Your feelings are valid but your comments could keep people from being honest. Let’s all just be curious and see what happens. Thanks!