Ya'll. Make me understand. I easily crack under-pressure, also, not good with stress-management and suffer from (mild but not that mild) depression.

How does one do the nasty while under this said-conditions? You feel filthy, unattractive and so-not in the mood for anything let alone sex. I mean all I want to do is practically sleep (literal sleep and not sex, lmao) all day.

You cannot fake/force the mood. Can't even bring it up for the occasion, if you know what I mean, lmao?

Sex would practically be the last thing on my mind. Tell me, how do people do this like this?

Most of my woman friends are like this as well. Even worse, they can't get turned on and it would hurt and traumatizing like heck. I feel for women who are forced to have sex when they don't want to. Women got it bad and way worse.

The problem is most of my SOs ain't like that. I thought that they would be more understanding since most of the time (I have anxiety as well and currently single right now, unrelated though, lmao) they were under-stress, anxious and depressed as well. Nope, complete opposite. They were more frustrated and angry. My other SOs, the always cheerful ones have been more understanding although they have never suffered from depression/anxiety/stress. The ones in the same boat with depression/anxiety/stress didn't. What gives? Why are the ones in the same boat don't understand/vibe with me when it comes to sex but the cheerful ones do? Still did not work though because we clashed about other stuff, obviously, mostly regarding outlooks regarding life though.

My similarly depressed SOs said they NEED sex (sex is a WANT) and they NEED release. WHAT?? My woman friends said those so-called SOs were full of crap and secretly a masochist and would enjoy pain for pleasure. I'm so puzzled. I'm so confused. Can you guys explain?

Also, most of my broskis do not sympathize with me. They said that I was doing it wrong because they said they would NEED (The Truth Is WANT) sex the most if they were stressed/under-pressure/depressed. That's why I prefer to vent/talk to my woman friends when it comes to sex/relationship. I don't vibe with most dudes when it comes to this matter. They are just like most of my SOs. Should I set them up? Lmao. Kidding. Kidding. Am I though? Lmao.

Can you guys make me understand. Thanks.