I have found myself in a situation where my bedroom is essentially dead.

In recent history I've had a vasectomy, and we're waiting for the results of the sperm tests to confirm it's effectiveness before my wife comes off the pill.

She's been on different versions of the pill in our history, apart from when we were trying to (successfully) get pregnant a few years ago, and has always been on them.

I'm wondering how, if at all, things changed for people that were "life long" on the pill (or other hormonal birth control) when they came off it.

I'm hoping she has more of a craving for intimacy because the complete lack of phyiscal intimacy it's becoming a real strain for me. It doesn't help having a child that does not consistently sleep through the night yet, but even then, she's never been one for sex before bed (preferring morning sex...which I don't see happening when we're woken up at 06:30 by a small human demanding entertainment or breakfast).

Maybe that's a topic for therapy.

Nonetheless, women coming off long term birth control, how did things change for you?