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Hi all ! So, I'd consider myself a pretty casual person when it comes to flirting and sex.
I sometimes meet people of the opposite sex who are like me but it's pretty rare.
Maybe it's some form of detachment issues or some kind of testosterone thing I'm really not sure maybe it's just my personality.
But, I find that I can flirt with just about anyone and I'm just naturally a pretty flirtatious person.
I'll catch myself being curious what it would be like to experience someone or to see just if I could get them to reciprocate and I might flirt with them just for that reason.
Hard to explain, but in my mind there is a distinction between people I'm curious about, people I'm not opposed to messing around with, and then people that I'm super attracted to.
And I found myself in situations where I'll flirt my way into making out with someone only to later find out it was maybe a little more meaningful to them than it was to me.
So my question is: Do you find that you can't flirt or mess around with anyone if it's not in a romantic context? And what has been your experience of other people?
Also, as a bonus: I know not everything needs a category or a name but would love to know if there's a good descriptive term for my personality lol besides flirtatious.
Also also, I try to over communicate and not get anyone's feelings hurt when I'm engaging with them. I'm very transparent about the fact that it's completely casual on my end before we even sleep together.
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