for me it’s my sister-in-law, my wife’s younger sister. she’s 35 and I’m 43 going on 44. We’ve always had a big brother little sister relationship but as she’s matured and become an awesome woman I have found her more appealing, on both a sexual and emotional level. I would never do that to my wife and neither would she, but we are very close and I am physically attracted to her, and if I was meeting her for the first time and hadn’t met my wife I absolutely would. I honestly feel really bad about it, but then again you really can’t control who you’re attracted to and you develop feelings for. anybody else have a thing for somebody who should be absolutely off-limits?