I love sex too, don't get me wrong. But teasing is a really stimulating activity for me.

I (21F) often do it (around a partner, not really in public or anything) through dressing skimpy or tight, bending over, making subtly sexual sounds, asking overly sexy questions, snuggling but grinding and being pretty hands-on/needy etc.. I mean, cliche as it sounds but plain ole' sex kitteny, lol (kind of just my personality?).

I love to do it, and will often go so far as to lead into asking to see their dicks, hold and play with them. I'll ask to be touched and played with too, but could do this for literal hours.

The goals isn't 'sex' or even orgasm, but just playing around I guess? The validation of them wanting it is nice, and being able to see how much they enjoy it too is pretty hot. But I mentioned this once to someone and they said how it 'wasn't fair' and 'rude' to do that. That I shouldn't tease or play for so long without having actual sex, or I should at least warn before doing that. And kind of intimated that it wasn't desirable and kind of a..letdown.

Is this true? I of course want to have sex with someone I'd date (and often like orgasming multiple times a day, and would with a partner), but I struggle to be completely sure in the moment and enjoy the foreplay so much that I almost forget about the 'main attraction', so to speak. Is what I'm doing wrong, and/or a nuisance for guys?