After one month of active NSFW content, I conducted a study that resulted in more women engaging with me than I originally thought. Here are some tips I have gathered & want to see your opinions & tips added in as well:

• Never spam the same one-liner, even if 5 different subs

• Interact in subreddits with more exhibitionists like dirtyr4r, gonewild, aradgw, & arad

• Use grammar for proper full sentences

• Never immediately ask for nudes

• State 1 paragraph minimum, 3 paragraph maximum worth of introduction of yourself

• Engage in conversations that you and the person find interesting

• Never instantly show NSFW posts to DM’s; they are still people, not objects

• Message on another interest besides NSFW; don't mention their nudes first

• Think knowledgeable, not dicknowledgeable

• Imagine how you text similar to if they were in front of you 

• Stand on point by not deleting what you stated if the statement is not stupid

• Write a custom, decent-length comment in person, as anything NSFW in conversation should be a slow turn on the oven rather than flipping the light switch

• Don't ask the person if they want to talk about anything, it makes it hard and places a burden

• Instead, come to them and put the effort on them to provide a topic by checking around their profile and seeing if they talked about something that is interesting to you

• Always ask questions about topics to let them become engaged and trust be formed; this is good, especially if you don't know what to say next

• Be aware that even though you do everything right, you can still be rejected

• Everyone is busy so remember that late replies does not always mean they are not interested, still try to see if they are available and if they did not respond in one week then they are not interested