When it comes to the bedroom, I'm curious how everyone else feels about their partner loving a certain fetish/position/act vs them simply being willing for your enjoyment. I know this may seem like a dubious distinction to some, but for me it's crucial because I absolutely cannot enjoy something unless my partner enjoys it on the same level. For example, if my wife wasn't a fan of doggy style, but she was happy to do it because she knows I love it and she gets off on my enjoyment, I still wouldn't be able to enjoy it on my end because I know she doesn't enjoy the act itself. Regardless of how enthusiastic her consent is, just knowing that she doesn't get the same enjoyment out if it really makes it a no-go for me. Just like the old stereotype of getting oral once a year for your birthday/special occasion, it makes me uniquely uncomfortable.

What about everyone else?