Just to make it clear: I don't care what others think, but I confess that I am somewhat curious about the subject. I have an exceptionally solid relationship and I am very proud of her.

Apparently we share the same kinky pleasure. She wears skimpy bikinis because she likes them (initially to please me and over time she started to like them), but mainly because she pleases me. This gave her a satisfying boost in self-esteem too.

As for walking without me, like I said, she's been through some pretty unpleasant situations. On one occasion, she went out alone to buy water and an older woman called her loudly a “sly slut” and accused her of trying to seduce husbands... It wasn't nice for her.

As for the admiring looks she receives... The great source of my fetish with her is precisely this: she is desired by everyone, but she is mine alone. Contemplating her parading her all exposed ass almost naked in a microbikini is my personal delight. Walking hand in hand with her dressed in this fully exposed way gives me an inexplicable feeling of satisfaction, well-being and, perhaps, mastery.

I really appreciate, despite jealousy, seeing men turning their necks to look at her. And I guarantee: her body really stands out a lot and dressed in her microbikinis, it's impossible to go unnoticed.

That being said, that's why at the beginning I wrote that your words didn't make sense... I'm glad we got it right.

Obviously there is a context behind the question that I chose to omit as I considered it unrelated. My wife usually wears revealing bikinis as long as she is accompanied by me (I like and approve it, it's important to say). She thinks that walking alone generates undue judgments about her “intentions”. In fact, she has already had unpleasant experiences being alone. So my question came to this point: what do people really think about a more uninhibited swimwear in public places or what comes to mind when faced with such a situation, especially in the case of accompanied women?

I've read suggestions that the husband in these circumstances would be in a condition of humiliation imposed by the wife's attitude or that the husband would be a cuckold... In our case it's nothing like that.

Furthermore, some people feel that they have the right complain or scold with lessons about a supposed "appropriate dress code"... To what extent does this really exist in reality or are they just voices in each person's head? In other words, what goes on silently in people's minds during things like this?

Well .. thanks for your honest answer.

I just didn't understand what led you to believe that I have insecurities about my wife to use thongs in public... it was meaningless. but it's OK. FYI, I not only respect her autonomy, but I make a point of promoting it along with my wife's self-esteem.

I have already reflected deeply on this (including talking to her) and how much my preference influenced her will. She admits that she started it just to please me, but felt free to use it for her own satisfaction. I can say that many issues of body acceptance that she had were well overcome.

She says it's great for her self-esteem (especially after two kids), as well as spicing up our sex life. Needless to say, how pleased and proud I am of the my wife.

So we're a pretty cool couple. I also encourage my wife to wear tiny thongs at the beach and it has been excellent for our relationship.