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I say no, personal experience has taught me that it’s probably better for both parties.
I had a whirlwind marriage at 19, he was a 21 year old return LDS missionary. I had been questioning my own beliefs after being raised in a religious (non-LDS) household and I had taken the lessons from the resident missionaries but never decided to go through with baptism. He stopped going to church for a while, but after a year and a half, he started going back. Our life picture started to differ and I realized I was just waiting for him to change his mind, clearly not healthy. He wanted a very involved lifestyle with the church and there were many aspects of the religion that I truly disagreed with.
It was ultimately better on both sides as I would’ve spent my entire marriage waiting for him to distance from the church again or hoping he changes his mind. It’s was an amicable split and I still think he is one of the nicest people I’ve ever met. But definitely for the best.
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