I met this guy at the gay bar with his gf and it was a gear night. Gear night is a night when people wear underwear, harness and jockstrap and he came there shirtless. Of course, first i didn’t think anything of it because a lot of straight men go to the gay bar with someone (usually a girlfriend or another gay person). The more I hangout with this straight man the more he gives out questionable vibes. He boldly admits that other men looks at other men penis in the locker room when I have straight men swear up & down that straight men don’t. He admits that he is comfortable when other men glance at his penis as he says “It’s just a penis”. He boldly would say another man is “hot” in casual conversation and the more he express these comments the more I am attracted to him.