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So long story short I met him at one of my jobs which I only work for once a month. In February he was texting me on Facebook messenger and being really flirty and lots of emojis.
Now he isnāt as a flirty through text itās one word answers no more emojis and stuff.
Although when Iām at work he will go out of his way to tap on me and walk away as if he didnāt (flirting ) then we finally found time to hang out because the two times I told him Iād hang with him I fell asleep.
A little back story: (I just got off the plane early flight at 6 am and didnāt go to bed till 1 am the flight was at 6 am and had to be there at 4am. I went to work from 9:30 am-3pm and got home at 4pm. While I was at work a co worker (A) and I were talking. B(possible crush) walks by and says ya āshe can make plans but wonāt follow through. (Leading me to believe he might be kinda upset or joking around. )
So when my day was over he came up to me and said what are you doing today. I said well I was gonna go home and go to bed and chill because I have to be up early for my other job. He said hit me up when youāre free then. I said in response āhit me up when YOURE free thenā his response (Iām always free ) me: ok lol Him: so maybe we can hang out for a bit tonight. Me : ok cool hit me up then Him: ok Also quick side note he gave me a gift that I said I liked from his store for free because it was a gift for my early birthday.
(I go home and I fall asleep again (this is now the 2nd time Iāve fallen asleep and he texts me and I wake up 4 hours later and I apologize.)
So Monday I text him trying to make up for it and say want to hang out and he says Letās do Tuesday because my job is closed that day (which I found out was a lie because I saw the fb post about his job)
So on Tuesday we figure out 4:30 at an arcade. He texts me at 4:30 that he needs that gift back from his store to sell it because someone actually ordered it. So I just agree to give it to him. (Didnāt want to deal with awkwardness if I didnāt give it back) I told him he had to buy dinner because I didnāt want anything else.
At around 4:30 he texted me telling me he will be late. I said no big deal (not realizing he will be 1 hour late)
He texted me at 4:30 asking are you waiting and I donāt want to admit it so I tell him Iām shopping and not even waiting on him. He says ok cool Imma take a shower and be right there.
So he gets there at 5:30 I give him his gift and I walk into the building while he goes to his car. We stand there for a bit until we are seated. We get seated and he asks what I wanted and I pick a pasta and he didnāt seem happy so I just went with a cheaper option of letās do a combo share a meal and get a arcade card to play games. We get to talking and I ask him a favorite restaurant of his is and he says āI gotta take you, Iāll take you. ā
So we finish dinner bill was $60 he tips $10 We go to play games and Iām terrible at one of the games so he pulls one of those typical flirt moves where he grabs the girls hand to āhelp her ā and I end up beating him lol š
We do another game and he does the same thing again and touches my hand.
I eventually excuse myself for the bathroom and when i come out he hands me a stuffed animal and says I won this for you. It was a stuffed animal (kinda makes me think of a boyfriend thing)
While we walk around looking for games to play next he puts his hand around my back. (As if Iām his )he also touches my shoulder.
So we play through the card and I offer to add a few more dollars on it and he says no no so he pulls out his money and gives it to me cause he realized it was cash only and I didnāt yet the machine doesnāt work and I say let me pay you got dinner so he gives in after a few and he says put the smallest amount on it . So we play and the card runs out and I say ok Iām done for the night and we head toward the door and he goes to his car and I say you gonna walks to my car and he does he says I feel bad for women dealing with creepy guys I especially feel bad for cute women. He looks at me and I try to look away as I blush. He hugs me and says text me when you get home. When I make it home I wait a bit and text Iām home thanks for a fun night His reply : same. It was fun.
He didnāt text me the next day. But liked my Facebook photo.
Also another thing he went Facebook live on Monday night at like 11pm and I randomly woke up to use the bathroom check my phone see that he is live and I join the room for a second and leave after. I wake up to a text Tuesday morning āwhy didnāt you say hi.ā Then he asks me Tuesday at dinner why didnāt you say hi. Which confuses me why is he so bothered I didnāt say hi.
What do you think ? Iām confused.
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