Me and my husband have talked about having a threesome for a really long time but neither of us took the initiative to actually have one, we went over all of our boundaries, safe words, anything under the sun we could think of that needed to be covered. My husband always joked that if we ever got around to actually having a threesome he wanted it to be with his (single) bestfriend (of 18 years..). Well last night we had the opportunity but I froze. My husband asked me if I wanted to have a threesome with them and I was caught off guard.

After about 15 seconds of having my jaw on the floor, I told my husband and his friend no and went directly to bed. I really wanted to have the threesome, my husbands friend is attractive and well mannered, we get along well but all I could think about was if this was going to ruin their friendship. Me and my husband are open and easy going with each other about everything so it’s not us I’m worried about, when I woke up this morning no one mentioned it again but now I’m almost regretting saying no? I want to talk to my husband about possibly trying again soon but I don’t even know how to start that conversation.

Has anyone successfully had a threesome with a close friend and it not mess anything up on either sides?

Here’s the update. We did it. I finally got the courage up and we had the threesome last night. It was the best decision I’ve ever made. We went over the ground rules and what we expected and it was awkward at first but when we all got naked it came natural. My husbands best friend was very very large to my surprise but he was gentle. We went multiple rounds but finally after almost 2 hours we all decided we needed a break. There was no hard feelings afterwards and we’re already planning for next time 😅