What type(s) do you prefer and why do you prefer to keep it private? Is it a situation where you feel like your partner wouldn’t react well to your proclivities? Is it a means to a strictly biological end so you don’t want to make it a “thing”? Do you not want to promote your partner finding sexual interest in other people?

One interesting answer I’ve gotten is that the type of porn that creates a spark for her isn’t the type of sexual activity that said person would actually want to engage in and their partner would have a hard time differentiating the two.

I had a girlfriend years ago who was vehemently against porn and got angry when she knew I was watching it, then later I discovered after using her computer auto fill and search stuff in her browser that quite obviously indicated she was a connoisseur of digital dicks. Lol

My girl now and I both watch a fair amount together and solo and our sexual interests are lined up pretty good so it’s like the entirely opposite situation from that lol.

At the end of the day, different strokes for different folks… just curious on a larger scope.