I know the feeling. But I feel like if you’ve been true to yourself, you don’t have to regret even the things that end up hurting you. You loved someone and it didn’t work out and now it hurts but did you follow your heart in the first place? If you did, then the love itself didn’t go to waste and maybe you learned something valuable about yourself and life

Why do you regret it?

Same here! I felt like they were a lazy way to communicate and people would loose their ability to express themselves properly. And then I got lazy too 😅

Hyvin sanottu! Ja ihan samanlaista ajatuksenkulkua mulla on ollut ja oonki naureskellu nuoremmalle ittelleni. Tuntuu elämä jopa olevan enemmän avoinna (hyvällä tavalla) nykyään, ku miettii että saattaa löytää itsensä jostain yllättävästä paikasta tai tilanteesta milloin vaan. Aikaisemmin kun luulin, et tää kolmekymppisten elämä ois urautunutta tylsää puurtamista 😅

Yeah exactly, this is what I meant! I was also interested in something else first, mainly because it was cool and highly valued, but then ended up following my growing interest in the less cool (generally speaking) specialization area.

Hehe oops 😁 I think many fields have these specializations that are generally considered ”better” somehow, while others are ”not as good”. And Sometimes these general opinions might guide us away from our real interests.

Haha no, no bullshit there so don’t apologize! I only wanted to bring another point of view for you to think about so you don’t drown completely in the pain. All the best to you and your healing ❤️‍🩹