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Having experienced numerous threesomes, foursomes, fivesomes, and even sixsomes with my husband (i'm a woman), I can confidently say that they have been incredibly rewarding. I believe the primary reason for this success lies in the strength of our core. We have an unwavering understanding that we are deeply committed to each other, which distinguishes our connection from many others that have faltered. It's essential to have that unshakable core belief that your partner is firmly yours and won't be swayed by such experiences. A lot of group encounters fail because they haven't established a good core, which is paramount.
We've had the most results from feeld, but our f4f profile on hinge has also done really well.
Tbh, you probably don't. Sounds like a big leap.
Count yourself lucky that she's climaxing. A lot of women struggle with that.
We have them all the time! We started before we were married over 10 years ago.
Life is good and it hasn’t affected anything in a negative way.
The secret is to not take them very seriously, just let go and have fun! When you’re done, communicate it to death with your partner and improve anything that felt off. Don’t get upset, if you’re not enjoying it put a stop to it, or take a mental note to discuss later.
Enjoy, repeat!
We did it more and more and more and more… it’s been 10 years and no sign of letting up! 10/10. Would recommend.
My husband (bi M) and I (bi F) have had and continue to have lots and lots of threesomes and moresomes. It was something we decided to explore together early in our relationship--no one had to talk the other into it or anything like that. We've been together for 7 years now and married for 4.
And although it wasn't something I ever thought I needed in my life, I can't tell you how much I enjoy it. There's just a freedom that comes with it. It's super fun, obviously sexy, and it's had a positive impact on the rest of our relationship. I think the trust and confidence required in a relationship to successfully navigate sex with others bleeds into the other areas of your relationship. I feel completely confident sharing just about anything with him--sexual or not--with no fear of judgement or rejection, so it's been really wonderful.
As many others have said though, if the relationship isn't extremely stable to begin with, it won't work. We've been with lots of couples and singles who thought it would somehow fix their problems, and of course, it never does. So I can't stress enough how important communication is. And sticking to what you've talked about (i.e., don't decide to do things that go against what you've agreed to in the heat of the moment).
Perfectly.
No dating app will ever be 100% people you are into. No dating app will ever be 100% people I'm into. Just swipe left and move on.
We've been together for 11 years :)
Seven of which have been after that and we've had a lot of fun with a few people
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Yeah we're very upfront, all of the photos have both of us, first line of the bio says we're a couple, and I swipe left on women with "🧲 Lesbian" selected. You can specify an arbitrary gender so I changed ours to "Couple".
I've been following poly/enm forums for a while so I think I've done a decent job of being ethical unicorn hunters.