43 male. I masturbated for the first time just after turning 14, and within a couple weeks started having wet dreams all the time. It was weird. Like I'd turned on a switch. I had them at least 3-4 times per week until college. Then from college through my 20s I kept having them probably at least 3 times per month no matter how often I masturbated or had sex. Around 29-30, they stopped. Then at 40, they came back and now I have them at least 3 times a month. When I was a teen into my 20s, I hated them and was always really embarrassed by them. Now I love them. But all my guy friends swear they never had them as often as me and stopped having them by college. Maybe they're lying bc they're embarrassed but just wondering if anyone else had them as much as me and as late in life as me. One last odd thing, I almost always have them when I stay at someone else's place. Anytime I stay at my parents, I have at least one every couple nights. And anytime I stay at a friend's house, I'll have one. As I said, I like them now and am no longer embarrassed about them at all and have no issue telling my friend that it happened because I know they'll see it anyway and I just think it's courteous to let them know they'll need to wash the sheets. But with friends who aren't so close or older family members, like an uncle or aunt, I now wear adult pullups to sleep. Any other guys 30 still get them?