What was the Biggest surprise you ever had after a few months of dating?

Have you dated someone for a few months and then found out something, that truly surprised you, and you didn't see it coming at all?

In my twenties was dating a very hot , fun and slightly crazy(in a good way)female paramedic, after just moving to London.

3 months of dating , seeing each other 3 nights a week minimum, depending on work etc. great times, good sex , kinky ish at times ,had my first ass play experiences ,but fairly light.nothing out if the ordinary.

Went on a quick few days trip to Amsterdam, she wanted to go shopping for some new sex toys and clothes etc.

I was a 24 year old guy, so obviously answer was yes , of course , shall I pack now!!

Arrived early on a Friday morning, nice hotel, went out into Amsterdam, obviously first stop coffee shop, got a bit stoned, then she was keen to hit some sex shops. Still stoned she shopped very happily, didn't really remember all the things she bought , but a good selection of items she was really happy about.

Got back to the hotel, she wanted to show me some of the clothes she had bought. Of course , answer was yes !

She handed me some underwear she had bought for me , black jockstrap kinda thing, I stripped put it on. She was in the bathroom, happily getting changed , came out in latex thigh boots with matching all in one bodice/ panties number. Looking soooo hot haha.

She came over sat on top of me and hand cuffed me to the top of the bed, of course I was hard already , she said she had forgotten one thing , went into bathroom , and came out with a strap on!

That's when she told me she was into fetish, latex , dominatrix strap-on sex , and why she wanted to go to Amsterdam.

It was the wasteland fetish party . I know it sounds obvious now , even as I was writing it. But at the time it was a .. ya what now? Moment 😜 . Obviously I didn't complain too much, maybe smaller strap-on for first time would have been easier.

But I really didn't see it coming and at no point had she even hinted at it.

So what about you all? What was Your biggest surprise, shock or reveal that some one has spun your world with?