Hi all, my (30/f) husband has had growing resentment towards me over the years because of some sex work I done a long time ago (a series called facial abuse for reference as a particular heated tension point). He sees me as damaged goods and has growing resentment for me ever since. He said any other man married to me would feel the same and that people who knew us found out they would gossip and mock us. I posted about this on askmen and lots of commenters agreed with that view. Thing is, it has been years and there isn't anything I can do to go back in time and undo it so I just feel like we are stuck. Divorce isnt an option as we both love each other, but he also refuses therapy. It's been years and I can't change the past, he refuses therapy so how do i get him to get over it?