I'm gonna make this as short as possible.

May 27th of 2020 was the day I (51f) ended my relationship with Chris (47m) after catching him cheating with multiple different other women online. We were together for 3 years without having any kind of intimacy between the two of us ever.

Well after a while we started talking and became friends. He is always asking me to take him back but he has never once done anything to give me the tiniest bit of happiness or reason to trust him, and there's still no intimacy or physical contact between the two of us.

I've found over the past 4 years evidence on his phone that he is bisexual but he refuses to admit it and he accuses me of planting the evidence on his phone to get back at him for doing me dirty like he has done. But that's the farthest thing from the truth.

Well I made him a reddit account just to see what he would do and just like I suspected he did the exact same thing as when we were together back in late 2019-2020 and is talking to other women and other men soliciting them for sexual intimacy. He talks to the other women like he's never once spoken to me. He goes on and on giving them compliments and telling them how sexy and how beautiful they are and how much he wants to do sexually intimate things to and with them but he's never once ever given me the first compliment unless I fish and give him no other choice but to say something about the way I look or that I'm beautiful/sexy! Never once has he ever done anything for me or with me without literally dragging it out of him.

Well he's been living with me now for almost 5 months without having a job or doing anything to help me around the house that I pay for all alone. I don't have a car right now so he's helping me get where I need to go but I pay for every drop of gas that goes in the truck that he's borrowing from his grandma. He expects me to baby him and cook and clean and caterer to his every damn want, need and expectation without him doing a damn thing for me ever.

He's very vindictive, petty and he acts like a spoiled fucking child at 47 years old. I have love for him but I don't want to be with him anymore and he has made it perfectly clear that it's either all or nothing with him. I've gone for years and I mean years without any kind of physical, emotional or sexual support and as long as he is living in my house then I'll never have any of those things and now I'm just trying to figure out how to make him leave without him going to any and all lengths to destroy me and my families lives out of pure and total hatred and meanness.

I'm currently in the middle of a very life altering legal situation that is keeping me stuck where I'm at right now but the second I'm cleared to leave state that's what I'm gonna do but I'm going insane living with this man-child and I need out before this bomb 💣 ends up exploding and ruins both of our lives along with my son's and his fiance in the process.

Thank you for taking your time and effort to read my post and any and all advise and suggestions on what I should do to get me away from this lunatic will be greatly appreciated and I'll take every piece of it and put it towards getting myself out of the hopeless circumstances that I've found myself in.

God bless you all and great thanks for your help ☺️.