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What can a wife / LTR SO do to keep your sexual interest? How can we as women keep things “spicy”?
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Recently married after 6 years together, and looking to continue our amazing sex life and intense physical attraction for many, many years.

I take great care of myself (eat well, lift weights, dress sexy / cute, makeup, hair, etc) as it makes me feel good and it also makes me feel wonderful knowing my husband is still checking me out. I aim to continue this throughout my life as it is extremely important to me.

I am high libido and enjoy giving blow jobs and frequent sex. But even then, I realize that this isn’t enough after so many years, children, mortgages, and mundane life experiences together.

So, men - what can I do as a woman to ensure I’m keeping things fresh and fun on my end? I’d love to keep my husbands attention for the long haul. Any tips or anecdotes from your own relationships or marriages would also be much appreciated.

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Hm, that could definitely make things interesting!

He’s never been the type to hook up (I was his first and only partner), has very particular physical tastes (prefers brunettes / black hair with dark features, insanely fit and buxom), and no longer watches porn for that very reason so I’m not certain how much he would appreciate the idea of “strange”. It would likely elicit a better response than bringing another woman into the bedroom, given his (insane to some) standards.

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