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32M that has been recently divorced, 7 months have passed. I tried to go out again but it didn’t help, met a couple of nice ladies but then distanced myself.
I just can’t do it man, I lost the love of my life, I lost my money and job. My life totally collapsed, but my friends and family keeps on reminding me that im only getting older and I’ve to get out and meet someone.
I don’t know if im frustrated from them or from myself, I just want the nag to end but don’t want to end up lonely.
Ughh I don’t know man, writing this hurts
I never understood this notion that you have to be with somebody else. My advices to pull yourself up and work on yourself. Do things for yourself that will make you feel fulfilled. Not crazy about your job. Fix that. Work toward getting a promotion or finding a new job. Not crazy with your leisure time? find a hobby or something that you really enjoy work on your house. (Clean organized well decorated living space almost always has a positive mental impact!) I had a buddy of mine who had an uncle that I knew peripherally. He was an older guy, never married, incredibly accomplished in his field. owned his own home. He retired at around 60, tons of money, spent his time traveling, never lacked for female companionship. I was always envious of him.
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