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Not wanting to rush or "let one get away" -- but what's the healthy dating tempo and approach?
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37M dating a wonderful 38F with a 3 year old for a couple months. She's ambitious and stays very busy all of the time, which is good in some ways but also time restrictive in other ways such that I can't see her near as often as I'd like. If there's no sitter, or basically if it's not her idea, we don't hang out unless it's a random 0.5-2 hour window during random days. I work normal Monday-Friday so I'm off on the weekends, and well, bored (if not anxious) if it doesn't involve the person I'm interested in. We've had some A adventure dates and what I think to be great physical/emotional/intellectual connections and potential. Given her divorce and kid circumstances I wouldn't even broach the exclusivity topic until many more months go by. I find myself already catching feelings which is rare for me; I want to still date around and not get hung up (so does she) yet all I want to do is see her! This makes it very distracting and difficult to even attempt dating anyone else for me. I've always been a serial monogamic type but perhaps this is evidence that's not really the best approach and I need to open my open dating (short of poly) horizons?

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