I met him through a popular dating app. (Sorry I wasn't clear in the op but we have been exclusive dating since the very beginning.) We have been dating over 3 months now. When I tried to have the "define the relationship" conversation with him a month ago, he was like you can call us whatever you want. He said if someone asks "how's your girlfriend" he wouldn't clarify it and would just go along with the term.

He's like things go naturally and not everyone has the awkward DTR talk.

Then recently I brought up the topic of if we should delete dating apps. (From the very early stage, he already said he's not using it/them. ) Then he's like - deleting or not deleting doesn't mean much, people can just reinstall them. You should trust each other in not using apps. "I wouldn't ask you to delete your app because I trust you. But if you want me to delete the apps then I will." "I also find it strange why do you need to reconfirm with me that if I'm seeing other people." Those are basically what he said.

Honestly those are not the answers I want. I'm direct and straight to the point which he kinda criticised me for when we were discussing work. His answers are quite vague and just confuses me about his feelings towards me.

I'd like to hear men's opinions on this.