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Hi, this is my first post here, but i want to know what your turn ons and offs are in the bedroom. (Feel free to get detailed) and in particular, when it comes to oral sex.
For reference im a 36f married to a 43m and im mostly asking so i can maybe try new things or see if my man likes this, that etc. He doesnt really talk about what he likes or dislikes, but the sex is starting to get redundant and i like to explore and be adventurous and try new things.
Thanks for any input!
Definitely talk with him and try to create an environment that he can feel comfortable with sharing his desires. It's amazing what you will learn about your partner 10, 15, 20yrs into a relationship when you finally break down the barrier and start to express your desires openly without the fear of judgement. ALSO... Try new things. Ask him if he liked it. Ask him what else turns him on. Start throwing out some of your fantasies as ideas to try and see what his reaction is, or if they align with his fantasies. You never know, until you know, so don't waste time! Have these convos early and often and if you're 14yrs in already... No better time to start then now.
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