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How does a man with no positive sexual experiences ever hope to feel like his sexuality is desired?
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The classic "asking for a friend" kinda deal. All of my past girlfriends had something going which made sex not happen ever for us (I'm 26 at this point). That combined with the constant messages sent by my most immediate environment (men are predators and they way they approach sex is evil), makes me unable to feel like I'm desirable as a sexual being.

Apart from an enthusiastic and communicative partner, what are some things one might do/know/notice which may justify to oneself being a heterosexual man?

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Feel free to PM me if you're interested in talking more about the specifics, but I assure you, there are definitely avenues for someone into anything.

I've seen all sorts of smut get posted on /r/dirtypenpals, much of it pretty damn extreme - if anything, I write fairly vanilla stuff and it gets way less play than guys I know who go all out into weird territory!

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