I have been doing a lot of thinking about what I want to be when I grow up and being an employee is not one of them. Mainly to do with medical problems. I never had a full time job and probaly never will. How realistic am I being asking to be a Stay at home wife? I can cook and clean (most things... again medical gets in the way). I personally love volunteering, doing community engagement, and try not to be a lazy pos.

Medical problems such as Type 2 diabetes, arthritis, major depression disorder and complex post traumatic syndrome. In short high blood sugar puts me on my ass for AT LEAST 3 days. Arthritis makes my ankles and feet ache and throb before I even open my eyes in the morning, let alone have my feet hit the floor. And the depression makes me not want to clean, anytbing, not even myself.

I feel guilty because it makes me feel like I am a child asking my husband to take care of me. He would be the breadwinner and would have to do majority of the chores. I cannot bend over so no putting away laundry or emptying the dishwasher on a daily basis.

Seriously, knowing how much extra one needs to put into a relationship with me, is being a stay at home wife pheasable?.

Edit: I do not want children.

So it would be just my husband and I.