So it’s basically the title, but for a little more context i am neither more dominant or more submissive but just in between. If im not in a particularly dominant or submissive mood, i like it just intimate and mutual sort of dominance.

I have days where i feel more dominant and on those days all is good, i can perform. But other times, if my gf says dominate me and im put on the spot, i just can’t really do it. it’s like i overthink it rather than just doing what i normally do when i feel dominant.

I’m curious if there are any tips for “getting in the mood” for it if my gf asks right before we fuck?

This isn’t a need in our relationship and our sex is very good for both of us, but i’m curious why i can’t perform properly when im put on the spot or under pressure, if you would even call it that.

Any tips from guys who switch between the two or anyone who can give advice is appreciated. thanks boys.