Today my girl came over (never had one before), and one thing led to another, we started with oral play. We put condom on, and she switched into few positions, until I finished, no problem.

Second round after about 10-15min, oral again, then put the condom on. Now here is where it goes bad! My thing started getting soft inside her, we switch positions and I could barely keep my thing semi-hard. She removed the condom and switched to oral again to wake it up, and then we put another condom on! Same thing! I got soft and could not perform. We ended things with a bj where I was able to finish.

How to deal with this condom issue? Is this common? I think first round, I was fine because I have not had any activity down there in a while (about 5 days) but second round was bad for me, I could only get hard from raw, skin to skin contact from her mouth. I use XL or L Okamoto condoms (depends how hard my erection is).

I am 25, I have not watched porn in last three months, and other than PIV or oral from my girl, I masturbate off, once or twice a week top.